One of the best self esteem boosters that will greatly increase your level of confidence and self esteem is overcoming problems. When we are able to look at our problems and not be overwhelmed by them but actually look for solutions and take action to overcome them and we get the required outcome, it can do wonders for our self esteem. The same problem that was once getting you down now becomes a source of strength and confidence when you overcome it, and that's why on our journey to having a healthy self esteem we must always be solution minded and not problem minded.
The mind that is always able to find solutions in the midst of the toughest challenges and works those solutions to get results is a healthy mind that will give birth to a healthy self esteem. The mind that focuses on the problems and becomes overwhelmed by the problems, and isn't able to see a way out is an unhealthy mind that will give birth to low self esteem.
Knowing that overcoming problems is one of the best self esteem boosters, I put together this worksheet that shows you how to be more solution minded in your approach to dealing with problems, it gives you a system for overcoming problems and helps you to work through the problem on paper so that you can harness the power of your mind to come up with solutions.
For me, one of the things that helped me to develop a healthy self esteem is tackling problems head on and actively looking for ways to overcome, rather than bury my head in the sand, I take responsibility, rather than allowing my problems to make me feel like a failure, I look for ways around the problem, and it is such a wonderful feeling and a great source of confidence and self esteem to see the back of those problems after implementing the solutions, it is very empowering to approach things that way.
I have found myself in a lot of situations in life where I could easily have bowed my head, situations where it often felt like there was no way out, but one of the many skills I picked up from the personal development / self esteem workshops and seminars I have been to as well as books I have read around the subject, is to focus on solutions, not problems, and as I focused on solutions, I found solutions, and the more I overcame those problems, the more confident I began to feel about myself and my ability to scale through whatever life throws at me.
So download this worksheet and use it to work through your problems and find solutions and watch your self esteem and confidence soar as you overcome and have victory over those problems.
Overcoming My Problems Worksheet (right click the link and select "Save Link As" or "Save Target As" to download)
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